Friday 28 June 2013
Real Talk With Nthabiseng: <*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>
Real Talk With Nthabiseng: <*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>: You Are Capable ** You began as a young girl, who was frightened by seeing breasts grow, getting your first period..it further contin...
<*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>
You Are Capable**
You began as a young girl, who was frightened by seeing breasts grow, getting your first period..it further continued to seeing your sister, cousin or friend using pond's, putting on a perfume, making sure you were neat at all times. That time when you where told you are beautiful & you never stopped blushing.. U had your girlfriends in a group of 5 or more, wearing similar clothes, going up&down the street,making all the noise in the world like there's no tomorrow. You woke up each day, going to school, passing well, enjoying everyday that comes, school trips&other activities@school.You never used to worry much about where your future is going, but enjoying each day that comes & doing what your parents and teachers told u.
You grow up, you become rebellious, mature with time..mmmm this is the part I like. Having Friends is the best thing one can have in their lives, also the worst thing that can happen, U had that friend who always felt like she's the leader among-st you guys as friends"Bosso",that friend who would stop you from going home early, that friend who liked boys & thought you were stupid if you didn't hang out with boys, Yeh e.t.c you know those types of friends. Often times you feel the pressure, feel like you want to fit in the crew, you wana belong.. Having a smoke, taking a sip of alcohol,going home late& lie to your mum about it, you can mention others**by the way we talking about a Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman.
You know one thing I like about people is that they talk, some say good things, some say bad things, Out of all the talks from both sides you have a choice to choose what to store in your mind & apply in your life. Another thing I like about people is that they experience different things in life, e.g One gets pregnant at a young age,another drops out of school,one losses their parents,one falls in love&get a broken heart etc, then you get to engage with them&here what they have experienced & overcame their problems.
"Reading that scenario wouldn't you say you are fortunate to be informed about something before it happens to you?"
Often times in life we get ourselves involved in difficult,unbelievable situations & sometimes it's not because you want to but you don't understand&have knowledge of that action...
Problems arises, reality kicks in, then you think back and say you know I was once told about this..
Ok, we still on A Capable_Lady_Woman.
Your background! Does it really need to define you?Does it really need to stop you from going to school?Does it really stop you from Working for your family & make life better?. Your background shouldn't determine your future, A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman wakes up each day,prepares for school,come back from school to clean and cook.
A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman goes back to finish her matric after failing because of loosing focus,A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman forgives herself for having a child at a young age but still has high hopes about life& for the well-being of the child.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman rise from being taken advantage of&stands of her feet to become the best.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman believes in her power to lead & work hard for herself.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman gets her matric, degree,diploma & doctorate & use that to her advantage, not get a rich man & use him as an advantage to have everything in the world.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman takes herself out & spoils herself with the money she worked hard for, not the money she gets from a guy she depends on** one might say but I deserve to be spoiled, yes you do, we all do but Don't make a mistake of depending on a man if he is not your father, your brother or husband Get up & work for yourself..No one is tying your hands,no one is stopping you from using your mind, be dependent the rest is a cherry on top.
You began as a young girl, who was frightened by seeing breasts grow, getting your first period..it further continued to seeing your sister, cousin or friend using pond's, putting on a perfume, making sure you were neat at all times. That time when you where told you are beautiful & you never stopped blushing.. U had your girlfriends in a group of 5 or more, wearing similar clothes, going up&down the street,making all the noise in the world like there's no tomorrow. You woke up each day, going to school, passing well, enjoying everyday that comes, school trips&other activities@school.You never used to worry much about where your future is going, but enjoying each day that comes & doing what your parents and teachers told u.
You grow up, you become rebellious, mature with time..mmmm this is the part I like. Having Friends is the best thing one can have in their lives, also the worst thing that can happen, U had that friend who always felt like she's the leader among-st you guys as friends"Bosso",that friend who would stop you from going home early, that friend who liked boys & thought you were stupid if you didn't hang out with boys, Yeh e.t.c you know those types of friends. Often times you feel the pressure, feel like you want to fit in the crew, you wana belong.. Having a smoke, taking a sip of alcohol,going home late& lie to your mum about it, you can mention others**by the way we talking about a Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman.
You know one thing I like about people is that they talk, some say good things, some say bad things, Out of all the talks from both sides you have a choice to choose what to store in your mind & apply in your life. Another thing I like about people is that they experience different things in life, e.g One gets pregnant at a young age,another drops out of school,one losses their parents,one falls in love&get a broken heart etc, then you get to engage with them&here what they have experienced & overcame their problems.
"Reading that scenario wouldn't you say you are fortunate to be informed about something before it happens to you?"
Often times in life we get ourselves involved in difficult,unbelievable situations & sometimes it's not because you want to but you don't understand&have knowledge of that action...
Problems arises, reality kicks in, then you think back and say you know I was once told about this..
Ok, we still on A Capable_Lady_Woman.
Your background! Does it really need to define you?Does it really need to stop you from going to school?Does it really stop you from Working for your family & make life better?. Your background shouldn't determine your future, A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman wakes up each day,prepares for school,come back from school to clean and cook.
A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman goes back to finish her matric after failing because of loosing focus,A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman forgives herself for having a child at a young age but still has high hopes about life& for the well-being of the child.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman rise from being taken advantage of&stands of her feet to become the best.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman believes in her power to lead & work hard for herself.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman gets her matric, degree,diploma & doctorate & use that to her advantage, not get a rich man & use him as an advantage to have everything in the world.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman takes herself out & spoils herself with the money she worked hard for, not the money she gets from a guy she depends on** one might say but I deserve to be spoiled, yes you do, we all do but Don't make a mistake of depending on a man if he is not your father, your brother or husband Get up & work for yourself..No one is tying your hands,no one is stopping you from using your mind, be dependent the rest is a cherry on top.
Have Pride & Maintain your dignity as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman don't let anyone stop you from achieving your goals in life, be a flower that brightens your family's life, look back with a smile to that boy who dumped you for that other woman, also that boy You dumped because u thought he wasn't good enough&u want for Iskhothane and then be se go Khotha! Look back&say damn I lost it hey but forward that's where I am going.
I am proud of A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who Never gives up, who respects herself, her family.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who knows her worth & value in life. Your beauty as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman is not from outside,but inside. We see beauty in the things you do as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman we see potential with the way you behave as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman.
At the top there is a picture of Capable_Girls_Ladies_Women who graduated, Have you graduated yet? So what the fact that you haven't graduated doesn't mean you are not A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman God has different plans for us all, Some will graduate, some won't , some will get high paying jobs, some won't, some will get married, some won't eh don't ask me why ne, only God knows, some will have cars, some will ask to go on a ride..the list continues we not the same & there will always be A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who's ahead from you.
Today be that Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who has no fear to go an extra mile. If you believe you can, then you will. I love you Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman show the world what you made of & shine like a Diamond!
Cheers my Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman
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