MonitorYourThoughts

Motivation

 Welcome to realtalkwithnthabi.

 The discussion for the day is about monitoring  your thoughts.

Every human-being is born with brains and a mind to think, how often do you ask yourself this question, Is what I am thinking now right?is my  mind in the right state? well, often at times such questions come  after making a decision, was what I did right?did i need more time to think about it?. You mite differ with the way you monitor your thoughts, but somewhere somehow there are times when you apply what you thinking about, without "thinking twice",don't get confused  here is a scenario:

When you think, you often apply your thoughts, you sometimes have doubts ,but eventually you do what you thinking  about.

The catch here is that you act on the spot and neglect the question, is what i'm thinking what I'm sure I want to do?. Basically your thoughts play a huge role in your life span. Almost anything depends on your thoughts, before anything else you think and decide, what one needs to start doing is thinking more than once before making a decision.

How many times have you made choices and felt eisssh I should have thought twice about it, yeh couple of times right. OK now that you've read this, you now have a chance to think more than once about what you want to do from now on whats.

  

Where to From Here??

Have You Checked today's date yet??

Fill your task today.

  Date __?____

  Time___?___

 Age____?__

                   Achievements____?           

  Goals_____?

This among other things in your life are part of what keeps you going and striving for survival.

As you resume your path in life do you ever think of completion??????

We have different set of people in life who have different views about life, education,family, love e.t.c

But the common principle we all have is that we have a starting point and a finishing point. Where to from here is a question that talks to the person within you, It is not specific but general in terms of how you live your life, day in day out.

After days, months,years of hard work, wrong turns, sleepless nights, achievement,success, fun and laughter, what is the next step?

We all have passion, drive to look forward to tomorrow. It's our responsibility to have a strategy,plan on how we face tomorrow, today.

As you achieve your goals and finish your different races of life, always have an idea of what the next step will be, It's similar to making a choice, before you make a choice consider all the possible options of the situation before you decide.

Even when you find yourself in a deep dark shadow of bad decision making, have the courage to ask yourself the question, Where to from here.? What limits us from overcoming our fears and worries is the fact that we ignore important things that are write under our nose. We begin to live a complicated life with the strains we carry through life and that end up bringing more problems in our lives.

Let's claim back our life's  worth by having our minds as our best friends, a mind that will alert you if you are doing something wrong, A mind that will motivate you from making the wrong choices without thinking hard, A mind that is filled with knowledge which will make it easier for you to choice between write and wrong.

Today mite be the best for you, Today mite be the worst for you... It all depends on how you view it and how you set your mind towards it..

From Point A comes Point B, It's your choice if you want to go back to the First Point and Stay there, or look back to it and say forward I go, That's where i am going next.........

~Nthabi Mokgosi

In Lebo's Designs

www.ildesigns.co.za

Welcome to In Designs with Lebo, where I introduce you to my creative approach.

The Person behind the name ~ I strongly believe that your knowledge combined with your creative skills can make wonders. The way you approach life's principles

   ~Challenges

             ~ Opportunities   

~ Failure

~Success

Is determined by your response. I believe that what you want to accomplish/ fulfill in your life span has to be inspired by something e.g You must have goals that stretches you to do more and that's how you design your life.

~~~~~~In Lebo's Designs sends out this message "You Are the creator of your life's designs"

God is our guide, He created us and It's upon us to build our lives from the gift we have now, which is life.

Everyday has it's own tasks... That's what inspired me to consider myself a Timer, since time is a companion in our lives, every second of it must be used wisely. You are where you are today with the help of how you managed your time, how you sacrificed your time in doing important things that benefit your future.

In Lebo's Designs comes to you with an opportunity to re-build yourself, your potential and to be concerned about how you create your lifespan.

~~~About My Skills

******Sometimes you don't need to do a course on finding out what your talents are... What you do/go through daily can help you see your talents/passion..

~ I am Self-Motivated

~ I love MySelf

~I communicate well with people

~I am creative and open minded

Being self motivate helps you to discover your true potentials and keeps you grounded and disciplined about the choices you make in life. Self motivation doesn't only rely on yourself but also on people around you, that's why I fully agree with the fact that you should associate yourself with people that will teach you something, people who will guide you when you not taking the right directions.

You maybe wondering why I am now on motivation and not talking about my website, well In Lebo's Designs is inspired by a motivated woman. For more info of my site do follow the link at the top.

~We build our lives, a day at a time

Often putting less than our best into the development/ creation

Then we realize that we have to live in the life we build.

Your attitude and the choices you make today, Build your life tomorrow.

 

Road To Success=>

The road to success starts with  a single step. From the day you learn, you building your success.

It's like building bricks, a puzzle..as you go up you need to balance the puzzle/bricks more..at times they fall, but with the knowledge you learned from building them at first you apply it with experience and manage to balane.

Success does not only apply on how educated you are, or how far you are academically

but, also how you carry yourself towards success.

The first step in your way to success is important and the experiences you face in life have a huge impact on your success.

If you fall, and stay down , you fail yourself and limit your way to succed in life.

If you fall, and stand up  again, It's your way of saying I will not give up on what I believe in, which clearly shows that you are paving your path to success.

When you begin to face challenges or problems, be it personally, in your family, at school or place of work that's when your strength is tested. When you are troubled nothing seem to make sense and sometimes the only way you think is best Is to quit... and I say nomatter how big/ painful the problem is, there is a way out, it can not be by day, by a month or a year but a way its always there. To see the light at the end of every situation Is determined by you and you alone, no matter what people can do or say to help you, If you are not willing to make an agreement with yourself from within, no one can help. "Its Starts With You,It Ends With You". If it starts with you then that right there is a success.

Dont be hard on yourself if you fail, make mistakes

It's ok, It's normal, afterall you are human and not perfect.

The best thing that you can do for yourself Is to learn from your failures,

learn from your mistakes and apply the knowledge in your live, with an open mind,

a free soul with no gradges or hate,

because if you are not happy with yourself, if you have anger in you,

your live will be nothing but complicated.

You can determine your own success today by just accepting the things you can't change

and work towards the things you can change that will benefit you and your future.

Attitude Changes Everything

" Your attitude will tell If your ship sinks or not"

Often at times we are unable to differenciate between a good attitude and a bad attitude, some reasons mite be because of the company you associate yourself with, the pressure that you get from your friends, or peers.

Little do we know that your attitude doesn't need to be determined by any of the above. It's something that has to start with you.

If you wake up each day without making your bed, bathing, helping with domestic work at home on weekends or always complain when you have to go to school or work then you putting your life at risk in terms of growing, maturing and making something better with your life.

Note that no-one will force you into doing something you don't want to do.

 A person can only try to advice you, it then becames your own personal choice wether you take it or not.



Something that is important in your life should be

first priority, like your education for example. This is one thing that

no one can take from you. It will build your tommorow and help you achieve all you ever want in life.

There's a difference in dreaming big, yet not putting any efford on making the dream come true. If you change the way you do things in life, starting with the smallest, you will not struggle in amking big decisions, because the power of your attitude is in your hands and you are the only person to make that change.



DEVELOPMENT SKILLS

What is a skill?

A skill is the learned capacity to carry out pre-determined results often with the minimum outlay of time, energy, or both.

In order to identify your skill the most important thing you have to focus on is firstly identifying your strengths and weaknesses.

We have different types of skills

• Personal
• Education, Technical or Talent 
• Work                         

The first important skill is your personal skill,

Why?well before you can develop any other skill, you have to know

what you want first as an idividual.

The world that will live in today, on various countries e.g South Africa, Germany, India e.t.c opportunities are made available for communities, learners, students and unemployed graduates, meaning theres no excuse in terms of available opportunities around the world.

As an undergraduate I have obseved that we often ignore the most important things in ourlives that would help us grow and succeed in life. I can make an example with google search, this search engine has made our lives easy, anything you need your able to find on google, but often at times we want to be pushed to be successful yet we have opportunities to stand and do it ourselves.

Having skills can take you to greater heights of life and with your skills you are more powerful because that is among others something you excell on.

So you do not need to firstly graduate to identify your skills, you need not to get employed first to identify your skills, it all starts with you as a person and your effford in the important things be it , your education, personal life, job e.t.c.

Give yourself time to work on your skills, to become a better person , a better employee or boss for that matter because with your skills the sky is the limit and you can achieve anything if you aquire the correct skills.

Good Luck on doing that and note that it all starts with you, develop yourself then develop the nation.

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~ I Had It ~ I Had You **:**:**

When do yo realize what you had?

When do you realize what you want and what you need?

When do you realize the feeling you have?

Life Is a journey, its path is smooth and narrow at times

Love on the other hand it's known by the beholder.

You're only as tall as your heart will be and

 you're only as small the world will make you see.

 How is your world today? Is it the same as yesterday?

Is it worse or better than yesterday?

The choices that you made yesterday reflects to your life  today and  today's choices will be determined  tomorrow, even in future.

Often enough we make decisions without firstly thinking... We don't ask ourselves this questions
Is the decision I am making right?
Who Is going to be affected and how?
How will that change things around me or my life in general?
Well this are the things we don't think of or things we ignorant about.

**I had It** I had You, this is that moment when you realize that the only best thing you had,slipped out of your hands, the pain of knowing you once had something that was very valuable, someone who really cared and wanted nothing but the best for you.
Reality of life Is that you don't always get what you want, truth is often at times you have a chance to get what you want but because of the choices you make you end up letting all you had slip out of your finger tips.

It's always best to appreciate what you have

at all times because you never know when you'll wake up

one day and realize that all you had is now gone, and never coming back.

Its not all times when you make the right choice, as human you ant perfect, 

you slip up at times and realize later that you took the wrong turn.

From a personal point of view, it's not easy to cope knowing you took a wrong choice, for which you cannot turn back to fix it.

It's said that time heals but does it really?? years passed for me and the pain and guild of breaking someone's heart still follows me at all times.

You know as you grow and mature over time you begin to see things with a different eye, you begin to understand what matters the most and what your heart really wants and need. That's why  its important to value the real best thing in your life when you still have the chance, to avoid wishing you did things differently.

Love has no expect, because it comes

in different ways with different emotions, everyone's experience

is different. So you can have views or opinions but without experiencing it you can't really know how it feels.

                     ************ You will never know what you had until Its gone, You also don't know 

                                                                                    what you have if you don't appreciate it at                                                                                                hand. 

Don't spend another day of your life wishing, make the right choices that will benefit you in future, you can have everything in the world but if your heart still longs for something that completes your soul, you will not be free.

I humbly edge you to love yourself enough to know what's write and best for you

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