~ I Had It ~ I Had You **:**:**

When do yo realize what you had?

When do you realize what you want and what you need?

When do you realize the feeling you have?

Life Is a journey, its path is smooth and narrow at times

Love on the other hand it's known by the beholder.

You're only as tall as your heart will be and

 you're only as small the world will make you see.

 How is your world today? Is it the same as yesterday?

Is it worse or better than yesterday?

The choices that you made yesterday reflects to your life  today and  today's choices will be determined  tomorrow, even in future.

Often enough we make decisions without firstly thinking... We don't ask ourselves this questions
Is the decision I am making right?
Who Is going to be affected and how?
How will that change things around me or my life in general?
Well this are the things we don't think of or things we ignorant about.

**I had It** I had You, this is that moment when you realize that the only best thing you had,slipped out of your hands, the pain of knowing you once had something that was very valuable, someone who really cared and wanted nothing but the best for you.
Reality of life Is that you don't always get what you want, truth is often at times you have a chance to get what you want but because of the choices you make you end up letting all you had slip out of your finger tips.

It's always best to appreciate what you have

at all times because you never know when you'll wake up

one day and realize that all you had is now gone, and never coming back.

Its not all times when you make the right choice, as human you ant perfect, 

you slip up at times and realize later that you took the wrong turn.

From a personal point of view, it's not easy to cope knowing you took a wrong choice, for which you cannot turn back to fix it.

It's said that time heals but does it really?? years passed for me and the pain and guild of breaking someone's heart still follows me at all times.

You know as you grow and mature over time you begin to see things with a different eye, you begin to understand what matters the most and what your heart really wants and need. That's why  its important to value the real best thing in your life when you still have the chance, to avoid wishing you did things differently.

Love has no expect, because it comes

in different ways with different emotions, everyone's experience

is different. So you can have views or opinions but without experiencing it you can't really know how it feels.

                     ************ You will never know what you had until Its gone, You also don't know 

                                                                                    what you have if you don't appreciate it at                                                                                                hand. 

Don't spend another day of your life wishing, make the right choices that will benefit you in future, you can have everything in the world but if your heart still longs for something that completes your soul, you will not be free.

I humbly edge you to love yourself enough to know what's write and best for you