TO A WOMAN OF WORTH

A Woman can be described in many ways, but before one can begin to describe it, the Word Woman itself has so much value and respect. You might have been raised by a super Woman but what you learn from that super woman will surely sharpen you to become a Woman of Worth. 

As you walk your ways in life you a blessed with wonderful Women, who are very courageous & driven, Women who started from nothing but now making it to the top, Women who were looked down at, abused, taken for granted but still believed highly in themselves. Women who got their hearts troubled by matters of life, yet pushing harder and having faith in God.

I'm talking about a young Woman who got lost in the dark, who took the wrong turns, who failed many times but stood up and owned her mistakes, got help and became a better person. That is a woman of Worth.

A Woman who got left alone to take care of a child, a Woman who didn't give up on raising the little child, a Woman who kept her child even when times where hard and believed in God's words "Do not worry about what you going to wear or eat tomorrow,trust in me to carry you through." That's a Woman of Worth.

You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God had a good reason why he made you a Woman,
Accept the gifts of love, patience, caring, problems, hard work, giving, humbling yourself, catering to those who need you, feeding the needy and taking care of your family. Such responsibilities aren't that easy to accomplish but you where chosen by God to do all this because he believed in you enough to make you a Woman of Worth.
Who are we not to believe in ourselves, who are we to doubt what God has already created within us?
Let's stop trusting in the power of our minds but trust in God's intervention, let's not get all worked up worrying about things we can't change but rather focus on what God has placed for us.

You might be that Young Woman who failed to pass a grade once or twice, got heart broken a couple of times, applied for a job many times but still no respond, had a baby before finishing school and having to find a part time job to help put bread on the table @ home. All this don't make you less of a woman or the unfortunate one, rather you are extra ordinary to be given a gift of so much challenges and responsibilities because your role is to a winner at the end of every situation, no matter how long it takes as long as you don't give up even when times get touch, as long as you keep praying when you feel like you no longer have the strength, keep pushing and trusting in God. 
Everyday is a Woman's day, because each day has its own achievements, downfalls,successes,joys,pains and responsibilities. Be that woman who has a dependent soul in God & independently responsible in your goals to succeeding.
Enjoy your life as a Woman, Respect yourself, Value your life, don't compromise on what doesn't make you a better person or what doesn't make you happy. Don't settle for less than you deserve,if your worth is not recognized or valued then keep up your dignity someone out there sees it! 

Real Talk With Nthabiseng: <*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>

Real Talk With Nthabiseng: <*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>: You Are Capable ** You began as a young girl, who was frightened by seeing breasts grow, getting your first period..it further contin...

<*>A Capable Young Girl_Lady_Woman<*>

You Are Capable**

You began as a young girl, who was frightened by seeing breasts grow, getting your first period..it further continued to seeing your sister, cousin or friend using pond's, putting on a perfume, making sure you were neat at all times. That time when you where told you are beautiful & you never stopped blushing.. U had your girlfriends in a group of 5 or more, wearing similar clothes, going up&down the street,making all the noise in the world like there's no tomorrow. You woke up each day, going to school, passing well, enjoying everyday that comes, school trips&other activities@school.You never used to worry much about where your future is going, but enjoying each day that comes & doing what your parents and teachers told u.

You grow up, you become rebellious, mature with time..mmmm this is the part I like. Having Friends is the best thing one can have in their lives, also the worst thing that can happen, U had that friend who always felt like she's the leader among-st you guys as friends"Bosso",that friend who would stop you from going home early, that friend who liked boys & thought you were stupid if you didn't hang out with boys, Yeh e.t.c you know those types of friends. Often times you feel the pressure, feel like you want to fit in the crew, you wana belong.. Having a smoke, taking a sip of alcohol,going home late& lie to your mum about it, you can mention others**by the way we talking about a Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman.

You know one thing I like about people is that they talk, some say good things, some say bad things, Out of all the talks from both sides you have a choice to choose what to store in your mind & apply in your life. Another thing I like about people is that they experience different things in life, e.g One gets pregnant at a young age,another drops out of school,one losses their parents,one falls in love&get a broken heart etc, then you get to engage with them&here what they have experienced & overcame their problems.
"Reading that scenario wouldn't you say you are fortunate to be informed about something before it happens to you?"
Often times in life we get ourselves involved in difficult,unbelievable situations & sometimes it's not because you want to but you don't understand&have knowledge of that action...
Problems arises, reality kicks in, then you think back and say you know I was once told about this..
Ok, we still on A Capable_Lady_Woman.

Your background! Does it really need to define you?Does it really need to stop you from going to school?Does it really stop you from Working for your family & make life better?. Your background shouldn't determine your future, A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman wakes up each day,prepares for school,come back from school to clean and cook.

A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman goes back to finish her matric after failing because of loosing focus,A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman forgives herself for having a child at a young age but still has high hopes about life& for the well-being of the child.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman rise from being taken advantage of&stands of her feet to become the best.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman believes in her power to lead & work hard for herself.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman gets her matric, degree,diploma & doctorate & use that to her advantage, not get a rich man & use him as an advantage to have everything in the world.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman takes herself out & spoils herself with the money she worked hard for, not the money she gets from a guy she depends on** one might say but I deserve to be spoiled, yes you do, we all do but Don't make a mistake of depending on a man if he is not your father, your brother or husband Get up & work for yourself..No one is tying your hands,no one is stopping you from using your mind, be dependent the rest is a cherry on top.

Have Pride & Maintain your dignity as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman don't let anyone stop you from achieving your goals in life, be a flower that brightens your family's life, look back with a smile to that boy who dumped you for that other woman, also that boy You dumped because u thought he wasn't good enough&u want for Iskhothane and then be se go Khotha! Look back&say damn I lost it hey but forward that's where I am going.

I am proud of A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who Never gives up, who respects herself, her family.A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who knows her worth & value in life. Your beauty as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman is not from outside,but inside. We see beauty in the things you do as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman we see potential with the way you behave as A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman.
At the top there is a picture of Capable_Girls_Ladies_Women who graduated, Have you graduated yet? So what the fact that you haven't graduated doesn't mean you are not A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman God has different plans for us all, Some will graduate, some won't , some will get high paying jobs, some won't, some will get married, some won't eh don't ask me why ne, only God knows, some will have cars, some will ask to go on a ride..the list continues we not the same & there will always be A_Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who's ahead from you.

Today be that Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman who has no fear to go an extra mile. If you believe you can, then you will. I love you Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman show the world what you made of & shine like a Diamond!

Cheers my Capable_Girl_Lady_Woman

ENTREPRENEUR'S CREDO

My Graduation Ceremony

Being a graduate at Tshwane University Of Technology,

I believe that strength of character and the search for opportunities are the products of Initiative and Innovation.

I will therefore always strive to be outstanding rather than mediocre.
I have learned to be resourceful and creative.
I will, with enthusiasm, grasp and use all  the opportunities I encounter.
Being a true entrepreneur,
I will always consider the challenge to be greater than the risk.
My independence and my self-respect are my pride and my honour.

My Knowledge is my strength and,  my skill is my security.
I will not bow before any man, nor flee from any risk.
My education and my abilities will enable me to stand proud and tall,
unafraid of the future and will the strength and independence to think for myself and to act on my own,
to enjoy the fruits of my initiative with pride,
to serve my country and to look the world straight in the eyes and say:
"This I did with the help of my God."
This is what it means to be an entrepreneur of TUT

MonitorYourThoughts

Motivation

 Welcome to realtalkwithnthabi.

 The discussion for the day is about monitoring  your thoughts.

Every human-being is born with brains and a mind to think, how often do you ask yourself this question, Is what I am thinking now right?is my  mind in the right state? well, often at times such questions come  after making a decision, was what I did right?did i need more time to think about it?. You mite differ with the way you monitor your thoughts, but somewhere somehow there are times when you apply what you thinking about, without "thinking twice",don't get confused  here is a scenario:

When you think, you often apply your thoughts, you sometimes have doubts ,but eventually you do what you thinking  about.

The catch here is that you act on the spot and neglect the question, is what i'm thinking what I'm sure I want to do?. Basically your thoughts play a huge role in your life span. Almost anything depends on your thoughts, before anything else you think and decide, what one needs to start doing is thinking more than once before making a decision.

How many times have you made choices and felt eisssh I should have thought twice about it, yeh couple of times right. OK now that you've read this, you now have a chance to think more than once about what you want to do from now on whats.

  

Where to From Here??

Have You Checked today's date yet??

Fill your task today.

  Date __?____

  Time___?___

 Age____?__

                   Achievements____?           

  Goals_____?

This among other things in your life are part of what keeps you going and striving for survival.

As you resume your path in life do you ever think of completion??????

We have different set of people in life who have different views about life, education,family, love e.t.c

But the common principle we all have is that we have a starting point and a finishing point. Where to from here is a question that talks to the person within you, It is not specific but general in terms of how you live your life, day in day out.

After days, months,years of hard work, wrong turns, sleepless nights, achievement,success, fun and laughter, what is the next step?

We all have passion, drive to look forward to tomorrow. It's our responsibility to have a strategy,plan on how we face tomorrow, today.

As you achieve your goals and finish your different races of life, always have an idea of what the next step will be, It's similar to making a choice, before you make a choice consider all the possible options of the situation before you decide.

Even when you find yourself in a deep dark shadow of bad decision making, have the courage to ask yourself the question, Where to from here.? What limits us from overcoming our fears and worries is the fact that we ignore important things that are write under our nose. We begin to live a complicated life with the strains we carry through life and that end up bringing more problems in our lives.

Let's claim back our life's  worth by having our minds as our best friends, a mind that will alert you if you are doing something wrong, A mind that will motivate you from making the wrong choices without thinking hard, A mind that is filled with knowledge which will make it easier for you to choice between write and wrong.

Today mite be the best for you, Today mite be the worst for you... It all depends on how you view it and how you set your mind towards it..

From Point A comes Point B, It's your choice if you want to go back to the First Point and Stay there, or look back to it and say forward I go, That's where i am going next.........

~Nthabi Mokgosi

In Lebo's Designs

www.ildesigns.co.za

Welcome to In Designs with Lebo, where I introduce you to my creative approach.

The Person behind the name ~ I strongly believe that your knowledge combined with your creative skills can make wonders. The way you approach life's principles

   ~Challenges

             ~ Opportunities   

~ Failure

~Success

Is determined by your response. I believe that what you want to accomplish/ fulfill in your life span has to be inspired by something e.g You must have goals that stretches you to do more and that's how you design your life.

~~~~~~In Lebo's Designs sends out this message "You Are the creator of your life's designs"

God is our guide, He created us and It's upon us to build our lives from the gift we have now, which is life.

Everyday has it's own tasks... That's what inspired me to consider myself a Timer, since time is a companion in our lives, every second of it must be used wisely. You are where you are today with the help of how you managed your time, how you sacrificed your time in doing important things that benefit your future.

In Lebo's Designs comes to you with an opportunity to re-build yourself, your potential and to be concerned about how you create your lifespan.

~~~About My Skills

******Sometimes you don't need to do a course on finding out what your talents are... What you do/go through daily can help you see your talents/passion..

~ I am Self-Motivated

~ I love MySelf

~I communicate well with people

~I am creative and open minded

Being self motivate helps you to discover your true potentials and keeps you grounded and disciplined about the choices you make in life. Self motivation doesn't only rely on yourself but also on people around you, that's why I fully agree with the fact that you should associate yourself with people that will teach you something, people who will guide you when you not taking the right directions.

You maybe wondering why I am now on motivation and not talking about my website, well In Lebo's Designs is inspired by a motivated woman. For more info of my site do follow the link at the top.

~We build our lives, a day at a time

Often putting less than our best into the development/ creation

Then we realize that we have to live in the life we build.

Your attitude and the choices you make today, Build your life tomorrow.