Who are you & what are you doing in my life?

Hello there,please take a moment to think about the people in your life and the roles that they play.

How important are they in your life?

Are they worth being kept in your life?

Are you benefiting any positive thing from them?

Are you cornered or forced to have them in your life?

This are some of the few questions one can make an introspection about when thinking about the people in their lives.

You are born in various environments where you always have that someone to look up to or turn to when you need guidance or help. The people in your life includes family, friends, acquaintances,colleagues or partner, so I don't want us to talk much about family because you have your family before anything or anyone else.

As one matures to make their own decisions in life, there are so many things to take into consideration, some among others is the fact that you have to be responsible for any decision you making.
We are still touching on the people in your life, as much as one would like to be friends with almost anyone it it highly impossible. People are different in their own ways so it's impossible to click with any of them. 

#LetsMakeAnIntrospection

One can agree on the point that, in life you have to associate yourself with people who will innovate your life, people that can give you a right direction to the path of life. "Don't get confused dear friend, at the end of anything that anyone says to you, you make the final choices", just needed to make that clear. 

 Let's be realistic here, who wants to have friends with someone with bad influence, a colleague who is jealous of the good work you do, a boy/girlfriend who doesn't support you on your goals etc. well I for one wouldn't want that and I am sure you also don't want that too right?, cool.

Basically the point that I am making to you is to say, you can have many people in your life, that play different roles, the key factor is for you to have the principle of learning how to choose the right people or how to associate yourself with the right people. 
It is as simple as that, if you have someone in your life, yet you feel like that person exists just by name, then step aside, don't compromise in-terms of what can benefit you and help you become a better you. Everyone has a choice of what they want in life, so have your standards and invite good things in your life , good people in your life. 

Don't spend your lifetime in a company of people that strains or stresses you, you deserve a smile in your face, you deserve great friendship, great relationship and the best of anything in life. Don't have guilt in doing what is best for you, at the end of the day it's about you and what makes you happy. 

As I conclude our talk, please note that you deserve the best, never settle for anything less that you deserve, have pride and appreciate the wonderful people in your life and thank them for all the things they do for you. Don't feel bad that you being choosy in-terms of who you want to associate yourself with, it's a personal choice that will benefit you and make you a good role model to someone else one day. 

Be inspired, 

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