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The best gift you can give someone is your time because you’re giving them something that you’ll never get back.

Girls that miss class due to periods and not having sanitary towels will never get that time back, Boys that miss class due to not having roll- on, low-self-esteem, and bullies who laugh at them for a bad odour will never get that time back.

If we can give them the time to stay in school, to focus on their education, to be confident and believe in themselves enough to say “Nothing is going to stop me from achieving my goal”
Let’s be grateful for the knowledge that we have acquired, and let’s share it with our future leaders.

You don’t have to have a lot to help, just be willing to share the little that you have with others.

Your support and assistance to this young girls and boys will never be forgotten. By the time they reach their goals, they will remember that one day someone was kind enough to help me regain my confidence, someone was kind enough to help me stay in school.

Don’t worry about how much you can help, but worry about not encouraging others to help. If you buy groceries each month, challenge yourself to add an extra item of sanitary towels and roll on, until the nation hears our cry for free sanitary towels, until we get equipment’s that will help generate more towels and roll on at less costs , then you and I have work to do.

CHANCE FOR CHANGE

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There's a chance to change, there is a chance to do better and be better. It all starts with You!

The reality is that you are the change that you seek.
You need to get yourself to a point where you are ready to embark on a journey towards changing your life for the better. It will not be easy, it will not happen overnight and remember that it is possible.
FOR ME, the journey towards positive change was one filled with ups and downs.

Failing grade 10 was my most painful life experience and a point where I realised that I needed to change my life.
On the day of the results my mother accompanied me to school. I saw and felt the disappointment in her eyes, when she saw my results. 

I got home, with a deep pain coming from my stomach , all that was going through my mind was I have disappointed my parents, I have wasted every single cent they spend on me.

My dad set us down with my brother & he asked "Maikaelelo a lona ke eng?" meaning What are your aspirations? 

I said to my dad crying, Papa I am going to work hard, I don't understand why I failed but I will repeat and make sure I pass well.
Right there and then I took a decision to change & that decision I carried it with me till I matriculated and graduated. Not only did that help me pass, but it helped.

Life’s lessons
Though I had obstacles along the way, I always remembered my decision and the promise I made to my parents.

Never take decisions you took early in your life for granted, today's decision is tomorrows future'

I have seen what hard work can do and

I know what more it can and will do

You don’t just wake up and expect things to come or go your way without any effort . You work hard for what you want and more importantly what you deserve. Every opportunity in your life requires your hard work , and I believe it is Automated. God would never give you anything you cannot handle. God would never give you an opportunity that you aren’t capable of taking and making it the best.

The less you stress or talk about what you don’t have or what you wish you could have, always ask yourself this question:

What am I doing about it?

What efforts am I putting in achieving my goal?

It will never be easy , the key is to keep focused, motivated and working hard.

Bring Back That Lost Confidence.

Your plans have failed , Your dream is now shuttered.This is all because you were told you can't do it.

Eliminate the word CAN'T from your vocabulary and stay away from people who wan't to change what seem to be the best thing in your life.

You don't need negative people.
Not everyone will understand your vision , and not everyone is expected to , so don't let life pull you down.

You have the power to make or break yourself. The truth of all truths is that most don't really cares what's happening with you , yet you keep sucking up to get attention and end up loosing that powerful part of you.

Today will never be the same as yesterday, unless you allow it to be the same.
I choose to make today better than yesterday, the road is straight, it doesn't have a turn back sign, if it does it's the end of the road, find the one that will lead you to your destination!

‪#‎WhatIfTheNextRoadEnds‬?You will never know until you try!

Trust God..He wouldn't put you in any situation you cannot handle.

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Find yourself !

If you don't have direction,
If you don't have a plan,
If you don't have the vision,
If you don't execute..

Nothing will change.

If you don't take yourself and your decisions serious, don't expect anyone else to.. It starts with you.

Start by building your brand ,
That brand is your name..
That brand is your talent..
That brand is your vision ..
That brand is your dignity ..
That brand is your image ..
That brand is your health ..
That brand is your future ..

Youth month comes once every year but what you do each day proves who you are , what your about..

Focus on you ! build You ! Encourage You! Motivate You! Empower You..

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BREAKFREE

All you need is a transformation of the mind.

Only you can break free from your problems, doubts, fears and insecurities.

You spend most of your life being unhappy..
You leave a fake life..
You please people more that yourself.

Truth is we've lived long enough to have discovered a very important fact of life--you can't please everyone.

If you’re trying to live up to all the expectations that crowd in on you (from anything or anyone) – you’ll end up feeling miserable because you’re not living the life you want to, and you’ll inevitably not manage to meet all the competing demands.

Break free today and find yourself.

Even a very good advice will not help you, if you not ready to receive and apply it. It always starts with you, the sooner you realize that, the better it will be for you.

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SPEAK SUCCESS INTO YOUR LIFE

You cannot change any situation in your life if you are not positive.

Go back to your initial goal,
Go back to what you believed in,
Go back to your roots and find yourself again.

Just because things aren't going your way, doesn't mean it's the end..
Maybe it's a wake up call to stop relying on your own understanding and start trusting God with your life.

You lament day and night, singing the song..
I can't go forward..
I can't cope..
I can't leave..
I can't survive..
When will you rise up and say I can?

You know the truth, yet you want to be told..
You depend on others to save you from your pain, your frustrations, your hard aches..

It's time for change,
It's time for you to stop singing and face the music,
for the song you've been singing has wasted your time..

Whether you were born with a twin or not, you are responsible for your life. It's time to take charge and stop sucking up to things that don't help you in life, to people that bring you stress instead of strength.

It's your life.. It's your time. "It is never too late to follow the light, to change your mindset."

Start by speaking success into your life and let God take charge.
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Embrace the child in you.

"That moment when my mother reminds me how proud she is about what I've become.

Mom's words,"I remember looking at other kids going to school in NorthWestUniversity, and wonder how my child is coping in Pretoria", look at you now, coping so well".

The little child in me got too excited and shared a tear. I am more focused and motivated by her profound words.

As a child the best thing you can do is to bring a smile to your family, make them proud.

Always remember where you come from , and let that drive you to becoming the best, be it your from a wealthy background or not, you are born with a purpose.

Learn to always cast back your memory to fun childhood times and the things that made you feel safe, fulfilled and happy. Build on those memories in a way that allows you to be the responsible adult influenced for the better by the carefree child inside and stop obsessing over the small things.
Kids are carefree! Let go of worries and see if the world around you tumbles.

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Stay Humble

Even through the hardest times in life, remain humble.

There's so much to be grateful for, for one, you are given another day, another chance to experience all the great things in life.

Why do you allow a person on earth to shake you.When God is on your site you cannot be shaken by anything , no matter what.

"Stand your ground, stay humbled" If someone else doesn't like it DON'T worry it's not your problem but theirs.
Have a splendid day  you deserve it !

Stay Humble!

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You cannot change your condition , until you recognize your position.

Each and every person is born under different conditions and circumstances. The word of God says Be Still and Know that I am God, meaning whatever condition you find yourself in it is not permanent, but temporary.

The greatest gift of all is life and happiness that life brings. Happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good attitude, great friends, loving and caring for others, giving, inspiring and leaving a permanent mark to those around you by being there for them when they need you, by assisting them with what you have and can offer.

If you reading this now and you feel helpless, discouraged and without hope, Ask yourself this question: What is my position in this condition?
For a problem to occur, already there's a space for a solution  which in this case becomes your position. Recognizing your position is 

• Waking up each day with a smile.
• Having hope even when there's not much to hope for, but doing it anyway.
• Accepting the things you cannot change, changing those you can and understanding the difference.
• Holding on to what you believe in & not allowing the wind to blow away all your hopes and dreams.
• Praying until something happens.
• Not sitting and waiting for things to come your way, rather to stand up and make it happen.

Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have, as painful and heartbreaking it can be, you need to stand up and change the condition. Only you can do it. When you are ready to recognize your position, it's only then that you will see a difference in your life & blessings through God and people around you coming to you. 

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You deserve all the best things life has to offer

We leave in a beautiful world,surrounded by Mountains,trees,flowers,oceans and seas. One may call it the beauty of nature.

God has blessed us with all this wonderful things & He knows that we deserve them. Yet at times we choose to have the worst things in life, that were never meant for us.

The worst things are those Doubts you always have,that Fear of the unknown. 

The lack of Confidence in yourself"thinking others are better than you",the Negative thoughts you often have,the Ignorance you have towards real facts of life like"if you don't go out there & claim your blessings then they'll remain where they are. The weakness that you have of not knowing when to say NO or YES. 

It's said that all things come to those who wait,Question is how long will you wait?the myth of all things will come to you,its not real. Snap out if it , get out there & smell the dreams,success and more... God has all the blessings set for you.

 You've got to play your part and make it happen.

Sometimes we think our problems are beyond repair, we loose hope,focus & we stop believing in the greatness of God & all he has set for us.
Whatever you think is impossible to overcome,through God it's possible. Be it issues from home,work,school just know it's all temporary,it will all come to pass.

Start believing in yourself, identify your strengths and talents & make them work for you.
You are meant to do great, to be great & have the greatest things in life.

As you make your choices in life remember God's words :

• Be Still and know that i am God
• You can do all things through him who gives you strength
• Don't worry about what you going to eat or wear tomorrow, trust in me to carry you through.

You deserve all the great things my motivated reader, be proud of all the best you have done and have.
Keep holding on until something happens,„leave no stone unturned. 

I believe you can & yes you can